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This test is to get to know yourself and those around you better. Please answer in complete honesty – there is no wrong answer. Circle only one answer, that which is closest to your real actions or feelings.
1. A. You instinctively are driven by passion or emotion, (sometimes uncontrollably).
B. You are driven by a need to plan or strategize and will not change your decision once reached.
C. You do not want nor could sustain authority over others, are very easygoing.
D. You are driven by a need to evaluate and compromise, you go with the flow.
E. You are always angry, explosive, clever, cunning, wrathful.
2. A. You are exciting, creative, sometimes
controlling or controlled, warmhearted, sensitive, moody,
spirited, passionate, compulsive, mysterious, burning with
inspiration.
B. You are realistic, rational, stable, reliable,
practical, sensible, makes decisions not based on emotions,
influential, active, supportive, safe, innovative, productive,
focused and instinctive.
C. You are generally passive, dislike conflicts,
rise above turmoil, easygoing, go with the flow, light,
cheerful, adaptable, what-you-see-is-what-you-get, optimistic,
trusting, gentle.
D. You coast along mostly but can be forceful when
necessary, easygoing, have deep emotions,
put others needs first, goes with the flow but will navigate
around obstacles rather than battle.
E. Your first reaction to anything is anger, violence is justified, you have no conscience.
3. A. You sometimes have regrets, but nonetheless
you revel in the joy of having created an effect,
whether good or bad. You live in a drama of sorts, either
emotionally or creatively. You are a
person who needs attention, who needs to be recognized and
admired, who is sensitive and easily
hurt over the smallest thing, who can love and hate with equal
passion. You are a person who thrives
on love and passion in personal relationships, who needs to be
number one in their partner’s life,
who likes to have their own way, who feels easily neglected and is
capable of being quite jealous
when their spouse’s attention is somewhere else.
B. You are a person who needs to plan before
acting, although you are determined to turn your plans
into action. You make lists and like to take control. You pay close
attention, striving for perfection,
even in the little things, generally organized, especially in
situations you consider important, sensitive.
But
able to reason and to be fair, steady, and reliable. You thrive on being the
organizer in the family;
are loyal to your spouse and expect the same respect and loyalty in
return; can seem on occasion to
be bossy and you like to take charge; you like to be romanced and
need genuine affection.
C. You don’t like pressure, you don’t like to be
upset or argue, but you do like new people and new
experiences. You love animals and children, do not sweat the small
stuff, and are usually easygoing,
happy to go along in life without fuss, generally calm, and
somewhat passive. You thrive on simply
being loved, are undemanding in your personal relationships, like
to keep things simple and
uncomplicated, hate arguments and fights, will try in most cases
with your spouse to pacify and
keep things on an even keel.
D. You usually find a way, through compromise, to
please others and yourself. You are able to evaluate
and solve problems by negotiating and seeking harmony. You avoid
attention, shy away from the
limelight but still like approval from others for work well done;
you strive to be fair and considerate of
others’ feelings, but can be so immersed in your own life that you
can be neglectful of issues outside
yourself or your family. You thrive on the ability to communicate
with your spouse and family; feel
the need to always strive to be seen to be reasonable, even when
they perhaps cannot be; and are strong-
minded and capable of standing your ground in an argument when
issues are important.
E. You love the idea of being disruptive and
creating disharmony in any and every circumstance. You
demand attention, become angry and vengeful when it is not given,
and plan to get even with those who
do not do your bidding. You ignore others’ needs and wants and are
concerned only with your own
needs. You do evil deeds, think evil thoughts, feel evil passions,
and will use your spouse, your family;
any and all relationships in whatever way you want without regard
for others.
4. At work, one of your bosses continually
plays favorites, and plays mind games with the staff.
He or she promotes and shows favor without discretion. Would you:
A. Lash out in anger. Fume and feel bitter about
the situation and complain to others. Feel personally
victimized or hurt? Watch and wait for the opportunity to strike
and have your way.
B. Feel the injustice of the situation and make a
plan to change the environment in which you work,
which might involve going to a higher authority. Speak privately
with the boss about the unfairness
of the situation. Organize with your fellow workers a protest of
some kind. Plan to look for another job.
C. Accept that you have no real say in the matter.
Try not to get involved and stay out of the way, feeling
that it is really not your place to say or do anything. Make the
best of a bad situation and hope that it
will change at some point. Shrug it off and simply move on.
D. Try to evaluate why your boss would behave in
such a way and work out what effects his behavior
is having on you and your coworkers. Evaluate the importance of
any input you might have as to
whether you personally could alter the situation, and from your
deductions and evaluations speak out.
Say and do nothing. Give the benefit of right
intention to your boss and try to keep the peace
between him and your fellow workers.
5. At home, your spouse has invited a whole
group of people to dinner without asking you. Some of the
group are people you know and some are friends or work colleagues of your
partner. You’ve had a
rough day and had intended to relax, put your feet up, eat takeout, and
watch television. Would you:
A. Invite them in, order takeout, have a good time,
and after everyone is gone, kill your partner. Explode
in anger and storm off to bed. Make the best of it but stew for a
few days and make your partner suffer.
Be thrilled and enjoy yourself.
B. Accept the situation, feed everyone, and exit to
the bedroom as soon as you can without spoiling the
evening. Do what you had planned to do and let your spouse get on
with their own plans, feeling no
guilt at leaving them to their own devices. Enjoy the spontaneity of
the evening and strategize with
your partner so that you can all have a good time. Make a plan to
speak to your partner later about
that little phone call they should have made on the way home.
C. Feel resentful of your partner’s inconsiderate
behavior toward you but make the best of it. Accept
the situation and either enjoy it or simply keep your distance. Keep
your feelings to yourself, even
though you feel shy and a little awkward at being place in the
situation. Sneak off to bed when you
can and hope that nobody notices.
D. Compromise with your partner, order takeout, eat,
and then go watch TV and be happy that everyone
else is having a good time. Be thoroughly annoyed with your partner
but try to understand their reasons.
Make the best of the situation and try to reason with your spouse
later about the inconsiderate action.
Try to come to an understanding with your spouse about future
behavior.
6. You have been invited to a function
(wedding, business dinner, etc.) and don’t want to go but have
been made to feel obligated, to feel guilt if you do not go – emotional
blackmail. Would you:
A. Feel furious at yourself for feeling guilty and
refuse to go. Go, but make your feelings known and
leave as quickly as you can. Try to change the venue or call others
and influence them to do things
your way.
B. Quietly make other arrangements and feel little
or no guilt. Go, but take someone with your whom
you know you can have fun with. Evaluate your actions against the
feelings of others and go,
making the best of it, or not go, with no feelings of guilt.
C. Accept the situation and simply live through it.
Feel frustrated and upset at having to go, maybe
show some emotion to those close to you but say nothing to those
responsible. Keep your feelings
of frustration to yourself and pretend you have another engagement
but have pangs of guilt.
D. Make up your mind to go, try to keep the peace,
and do what you can to ensure that everyone you
know has a good time despite the circumstances. Go for part of the
time or arrange another time
when you can all get together. Think up a way to have a good time.
7. Which is most like you?
A. Sometimes feel negative and often find
something to complain about? Find that you are either
extremely encouraging or extremely discouraging of others and their
actions? Dream of the perfect
mate even though you are disappointed again and again when others
let you down.
B. Feel compelled to express your artistic
temperament. Think you are sometimes unrealistic about
your expectations of people and situations. Find that you often look
through rose-colored glasses to
try to see only the best in someone.
C. Think of yourself as positive and outgoing,
especially in difficult circumstances. Love to be center
stage, even if it is at the expense of others. Need accolades and a
partner who gives you their
full attention.
D. Love a challenge and strive to conquer it at all
costs. Motivate others with your enthusiasm but
move on if they hold you up or disrupt your plans. Need freedom and
flexibility in any personal
relationship.
E. Take a while to decide on the right career paths.
Think of yourself as a social organizer who will
call others even if they don’t call you. Need reassurance and
security, as you’re not always sure
of your own value.
F. Naturally take charge of most situations. Find
that you are usually the first one to volunteer.
Need to be involved with your partner and have real communication
G. Very often wonder if the grass is greener
someplace else. Not really need the security of a house,
home or family. Consider yourself romantic and love the idea of
romance but find it difficult to
commit to a single relationship.
H. Feel content to be wherever you are at any given
moment. Avoid conflict of any kind in order to
keep stability both at home and at work. Need a stable partner who
is totally committed to you,
even if the relationship is not perfect.
I. Need the opportunity to try out new and
innovative ideas. Value stability and almost always feel like
things are stable. Openly and easily share your emotions and need a
grounded home life.
J. Always find yourself interested in others. Like
to involve yourself with worthwhile projects and
love to philosophize and intellectualize things. Want a relationship
but like to hold back and find it
hard to share inner feelings.
K. Feel like your main focus is on marriage and
family, even on social occasions. Work with children,
or in a teaching, caring or nurturing profession. Enjoy nurturing
your family.
L. Like company but feel you can be just as happy
doing your own thing by yourself. Get involved
with several projects at once, finding it hard to say no. Like to
make the rules in your relationship.
8. Read the descriptions of the following thirteen
characteristic groups. Pick only one – that which
mostly describes you. Please be honest.
A. Strong willed, emotionally driven, misunderstood,
unfairly judged by others, pessimistic, things
are never good enough, willful, uncompromising, desires perfection,
looks at things through rose-
colored glasses at new things but will be disappointed when newness
wears off. Feels let down and
inadequate, blames others, sets expectations too high. Idealistic,
hardworking, survivor, considerate
when seeking attention and approval, insecure. Takes things
personally, ultra sensitive, worrier, holds
onto hurts and pain, finds it difficult to separate past and present,
self-involved, strong-willed, have
moments of great insight but can also bury their head in the sand.
Has difficulty expressing feelings,
uses health problems as excuse for bad behavior. Has two sides:
caring, sympathetic and warm in
nature but needs to be in control and will create rivalries in order
to control people and situations.
B. Scatterbrained, strong-willed, acts on emotions,
refuse to compromise, aspires to wonderful things,
ambitious, idealistic,
vivid imagination, gets carried away, contemplative, meditative, wishful
thinker,
expectant, hopeful, avoid
conflict but will fight when emotionally driven, enjoys walking or yoga,
thoughtful, insecure, defensive, quick sense of humor, artistic,
creative, loves people, children and
animals. Caring and desiring best for others, good workers, helpful,
easily flustered in authority positions,
forgiving, tolerant,
determined to see mate through rose-colored glasses. Allows self to be taken
advantage of but only if allows it, dreamer.
C. Wonderful, bright, seeks and needs great quantities
of attention, emotional, easily hurt by neglectful
behavior, ego overshadows personal confidence, achiever, driven to
action by emotions, willful,
somewhat uncompromising, dramatic, powerhouse of energy, talented,
cheerful, quick-witted, clever,
often naïve, recovers quickly from difficult situations, alert,
optimistic, radiant, intelligent, vivacious,
lucky, uniqueness, headstrong, value reputation in themselves and
others, goes around problems instead
of solving, doesn’t get to point quickly, procrastinates, entertainer,
good host, good sense of humor,
needs to be liked or loved, appreciated, lack of introspection and
sometimes confused by own actions.
D. Challenging, inspiring, works to achieve desires,
determined, drains others by determination to win,
driven to action after planning and strategizing, creative, energetic,
powerful, skillful, artful, patient
with own needs, sometimes opportunistic, exploitive. Prone to
suppressing anger then has flare-ups.
Shares grudgingly, enjoys physical activity, active, if important to
them can be good providers, thinkers
and planners, ambitious, but also can be self motivated, pushy and
demanding. Needy, wanting, forward,
selfish, proud, loner, quick and cunning. Good sense of humor,
frustrated easily, controlling, kind, needs
to be appreciated and recognized.
E. Loyal, concerned, don’t give up, taken advantage
of, sensitive to neglect, very forgiving, plans then acts,
good instincts, wary, intuitive, understanding, sympathetic,
spiritual, wise, bright, reasonable, insightful,
profound, perceptive, daydreamer, imaginative, procrastinate in
difficult situations but will eventually
make decision, thinker, very moral, inquisitive, common sense,
speculative, easily depressed but hopeful,
protective of loved ones, empathetic, struggles financially.
F. Stands out, intimidating to some. Strong, steady,
reliable, good person to have on your side, good
common sense, act when others uncertain or afraid, plans, strategizes,
organizes then takes action,
sometimes forceful, judgmental, needs to learn can only control own
behavior not that of others.
Combative, courageous, committed, brave, observant, crusader,
professional, thoughtful, adventuresome,
volunteers first, great faith,
precise, methodical, meticulous, curious, regimented, picky, extremely
protective of loved ones and underdogs. Fair, honest, strong sense of
injustice, determined, powerful
good mediator, outspoken, alert, quick-witted, serious even in humor.
G. Difficulty with personal commitments, work/career
important, driven to action through frustration or
oppression, explorer, storyteller, dreamer, traveler, ignores emotional
issues, hopes problems will go away,
intuitive, sensitive to psychic phenomena, likes movies, knowledgeable
in certain chosen areas, inquisitive
but low attention span except in work, romancer, fickle, active, thrill
seeker, communicator, always
looking for new things, good sense of humor, easygoing, accepting,
passive but will blow up if cornered.
H. Gentle, has good intentions, faith in people & God,
selfless, passive, works tirelessly for good of others,
deals with feelings of aggression or frustration in calm/balanced way,
sensitive, intuitive, caring, more
concerned about others than self, foresighted, quiet, mysterious, good
healer (doctor or nurse), works in
service of others, loves children and animals, seeks wisdom, enjoys
constructive or instructive books,
opinionated, trusting, accepting to point of abuse, truthful, honest,
naïve, loner, family oriented, content
with life and makes best of even the worst situations.
I. Tolerant, accepting, gives everyone a chance, stands ground when have
to, likeable, easygoing, naïve,
obvious, easily influenced, inquisitive, interested in most things,
prone to gossip, inventive, curious,
immature, innovative, original, up-to-date, artistic, inventive,
creative, trendsetter, emotional – hard to
control, innocent, pliable, bold, sensitive, gentle, likes people,
nature, too trusting, makes friends easily &
has long-standing relationships, likes to please, fits in, likes to
belong, easy to please, sometimes self-
indulgent with food and drink.
J. Difficult to know, but well informed, driven to
action by need to evaluate and compromise, will take and
try to justify actions but will usually given something back in return.
Inquisitive, likes trying new things,
uncertain, low self-esteem, principled, self-controlled, seen as
emotionless or dispassionate but is
coolheaded, introspective, rational, intuitive, conceptual,
argumentative, aggressive when pushed,
idealistic, mentally alert, experimental, studious, loves challenges,
books, music, movies, art, and
companionship. Self-righteous, collector of facts, avaricious in quest
for knowledge, philosophers, has
trouble expressing feelings/emotions, self intellectual, few close
friends those knows many people.
K. Too good, too nice, used by others, unselfish,
compromising (which can irritate and frustrate those around
you), taken advantage of, will fight if pushed, strives to please,
always want to do right thing, quiet,
tranquil, serene, mentally calm, evaluating all things, hates war or
conflict, does anything to keep peace
even becoming a martyr, believes in freedom of speech, friendly but shy,
needs to belong, mediator,
negotiator, needs to give and take, has need to reconcile differences,
diplomatic, gives good advice,
weighs situations fairy, quietly judgmental, sensitive, gentle, giving,
concerned, caring, trusting,
trustworthy, high sense of truth, selfless to point of self damage, good
sense of humor, creative, likes
music and books, retentive mind.
L. Compromising, willing to listen, inspirational,
knowledgeable, spiritual, advanced, conservative, open,
loyal, tolerant but also intolerant and judgmental at times, creature
of habit. Mellow, wise, likes company
but also likes to be alone, likes order even in chaos, sensible,
patient unless dealing with trivial, dishonest
or unfair situations, takes a while to make friends, good advice,
determined and hardworking, will stand
ground if forced to fight, fights more for others than self, hates
injustice, protective of loved ones,
demanding of right behavior from others, doesn’t sweat the small stuff,
relates best to young and old.
M. Cunning, influenced by evil, destroys, disrupts,
savors chaos, evil, sinister, dark thoughts, sullen, angry,
secretive, mysterious, unenlightened, sly, mean, spiteful, cunning,
hateful, never thinks of others except
in how the can be used, completely self-absorbed, cruel, malevolent,
immoral, quick outbursts of anger,
corrupt., vicious, foul, shameless, obscene, excited by sinful acts,
intentionally manipulates others,
feeds on the fears of others.
We often aren’t honest with ourselves and will choose that which we’d like to be, not what we truly are. Many traits we see as negative can be positive. For example: Aggressiveness has it place when we are fighting for our rights or for those we love. It is only when it harms others that it becomes a negative. Review your answers and change any that don’t quite fit to those that truly do. Below is a short summary of your basic make-up or soul. We can have all of these traits at times and our environment can also influence our natures.
Instead of trying to change those around us, we should be more accepting of everyone’s gifts, talents and quirks. The only thing we can change about others is our attitudes towards them and their ways.
If you answered mostly A’s in the first 6 questions and A-C for sections 7 and 8 you are a Fire Soul sign.
A person born under the influence of Fire is someone who is instinctively driven by passion and emotion, sometimes to the point where they cannot stop intense moments of uncontrollable passion. To expect them to behave differently would be like trying to stem the flow of an erupting volcano. They can harness their energy in positive ways by applying it to creative and challenging situations and inspiring others to action. They are often their own worst enemies as they are self-critical to the point of damage and needs approval, understanding and positive attention from those around them.
If you answered mostly B’s in the first 6 questions and D-F for sections 7 & 8 you are an Earth Soul sign.
A person born under the influence of Earth is someone who is instinctively driven by a need to plan and strategize and who will not change their decision on a course of action. Often misunderstood and underestimated by others but who is resourceful even when they are most afraid, and compelled to take action. They are the warriors and hunters, challengers to injustice. Earth signs require participation and need to interact with others, otherwise their planning and strategizing natures are unfulfilled.
If you answered mostly C’s in the first 6 questions and G-I for sections 7 & 8 you are an Air Soul sign.
A person born under the influence of Air is someone who is instinctively driven by a more passive and calming energy flow and will not be able to nor want to sustain authority over others as they are far too easygoing. They need space, a certain amount of freedom and although they love to be with others, they are more capable of doing their own thing.
If you answered mostly D’s in the first 6 questions and J-L for sections 7 & 8 you are a Water Soul sign.
A person born under the influence of Water is someone who is instinctively driven by a need to evaluate and compromise, who is unable to do anything other than flow with the tide. They need space to flow, to channel their energy. They have an independent, free-flowing spirit even though others may well depend on them.
If you answered mostly E’s in the first 3 questions and M for section 8 you are a Sulphur sign.
A person born under the influence of sulphur is one who must work the hardest to rein in their basic nature. You will be a disruptive influence on those around you if allowed to express yourself freely. Your choices will give you the opportunity to be better or worse, more or less positive and will dictate your life course.
The most successful pairings in any type of relationship or groupings will be:
Each sign within its own group (i.e., Water with Water) as well as Fire with Air and Earth with Water
If you’re interested in exploring this subject further, I recommend reading “Soul Signs- An Elemental Guide to your Spiritual Destiny” by Rosemary Altea. Everything written on these pages has come from her new book and is only a small portion of in-depth information about human nature and our soul’s mission/lessons.
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